Tips for Older Men datingYounger Women

Young women tend to be attracted to men who are more like their dad. They tend to prefer men who are more mature and have more money. This may be the reason why some of them prefer dating a sugar daddy. Some younger women are also attracted to men who are more masculine and confident. If you think you have one or more of the qualities that I have stated then you should focus on them as they will be your selling point when it comes to attracting younger women. Here I listed some tips that older men seeking younger women might want to consider when attracting and dating them.

1. Be who you are and stay that way

Older men seeking younger women and finally meeting them tend to get lost on what to do and start acting like somebody else. Some of them even to try and act as if they were younger because they think that would impress younger women. However, doing so wouldn’t impress them whatsoever. Women prefer men who are true and honest with themselves. After all, nobody wants to date a fake.

2. Keep things interesting and fun

Do not forget to be playful and enjoy every moment that you have with her. Make sure that she enjoys every single moment that she spend with you too. If you keep her interested, she would most likely want to see you again and again. Life doesn’t always have to be serious and being old doesn’t necessarily mean that you should take things too seriously too. This is one of the many secrets of staying young even if you are well over your 50s. Enjoy yourself and make her enjoy your moments too.

3. Be the “Man” in your relationship

Even if you are not in a relationship yet, you should give her the impression that you can take the lead. Younger women like men who can stand up, be a man and take the lead. This is one of the reasons why they prefer dating older men in the first place. When planning a date with her, make sure that you decide ahead of time. Be the one that makes plans as to where and when your date will be. However, you should also be thoughtful enough to consider her situation. Don’t get too caught up on “being the leader” as you might end up hurting her feelings in the process. Being a man also means that you should respect her opinion. You can also make a good impression by opening doors for her and pulling out chairs for her to sit in.

Young women most likely have just gotten out of their parent’s house. Considering this, you should know that they may still be new to the feeling of freedom. Acting like her parents and suffocating her won’t be such a good idea. Doing so will only make her feel as if she is still living with her parents and this is not why she chose to date you. Give her some space and be the ideal man that she has always dreamed about when she was young. If you will be able to do these things, surely she will be the one that will come after you.

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Cheating partners – How to find out if your partner is cheating

We’ve often heard of relationships ending or marriages breaking up over infidelity. There are many mistakes that can be, and are, forgiven in a relationship, but cheating is one of those almost unforgivable ones.

Fidelity is the basic premise of any relationship and most people feel that cheating cannot be condoned. Whether your boyfriend cheats on you while you’re dating, or your fiancée plays around during the engagement or there is adultery in a marriage the ramifications are immense. There are often messy confrontations, sometimes a bitter break-up and an ongoing sense of hurt and betrayal.

But once you’re over the initial intensity of emotions and you start thinking rationally again, there is an overwhelming feeling of foolishness. You start wondering how long your partner was fooling around behind your back and how you could have been so naïve. If there’s one thing we human beings hate, it is to be made a fool of.

How can you be alert to a cheating partner? What are the classic signs to watch out for if your partner is having an affair?

Here are some indications:

1. Starts working late very often

If your mate is normally always home at a particular time from the office and suddenly starts coming home consistently late. It could be a new project that’s keeping him busy but it wouldn’t be amiss to casually ask him a few questions about it. If he is evasive or vague about the reasons, the alarm bells should ring.

2. Is against you calling the office

If he/she wants to keep work life separate and doesn’t want you to intrude, there could be a reason. I know of one such husband who got furious when his wife called the office. It seems he was having an affair with his colleague and was petrified his wife would find out if she got talking to the receptionist/staff. There are, of course, people who don’t like to be disturbed at work but they rarely get paranoid about not calling at all.

3. Gets defensive if you ask questions

Beware if he/she acts guilty if you ask questions or try to probe. Life should be an open book for two individuals in love and if you’re sharing his/her life and /or bed you have a right to certain answers. If he/she starts acting defensive or gets irritable and wants to avoid answering you’d better watch out!

4. Wants to go out with his friends exclusively

If he/she keeps making excuses to go out on dates with you only or be alone with you, your antenna should be up. Also, if your man keeps wanting to meet with his pals and tell you things like “You wouldn’t be comfortable, it’s guys only”, you’d do well after a while, to do a background check with some of those guys he’s claiming to go out with. It’s best to appear casual in your questioning though because, in case he’s telling the truth you wouldn’t want him to accuse you of snooping around.

5. Unexplained expenditures

If his credit card bill can be fixed at a certain average amount and it suddenly keeps escalating, he could be buying some lavish gifts and if you’re not on the receiving end, you might like to find out who is.

6. He reeks of perfume that’s not yours

If you’ve got the nose of a bloodhound and you smell a flowery fragrance on him or if she doesn’t smoke yet you keep finding her reeking of tobacco, be on your guard.

7. If he/she starts paying extra care to his appearance

After being in a relationship for a while, most people get complacent and start neglecting their appearance. If he/she is one of those, and suddenly starts taking extra care to be impeccably groomed, they could be trying to impress someone else.

8. The classic ‘lipstick on the collar’

Connie Francis didn’t sing “Lipstick on your collar, told a tale on you”, for nothing. She truly meant every word. The song goes on “Lipstick on your collar, said you were untrue. Bet your bottom dollar, you and I are through…”. While most cheaters are good at covering up their tracks, it wouldn’t hurt to watch out for this obvious sign.

9. Indifference

If you find your partner indifferent, unresponsive or uncaring you have a problem on your hands. If he/she is not cheating, you need to anyway tackle the problem and figure out what it is.

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10. Lack of interest in sex

When a couple settles into a relationship, the sex often becomes boring and predictable unless you make an effort to spice it up. But if your partner becomes lackadaisical about sex it should trigger a warning. They may be just plain tired but that should be temporary. If it is prolonged, there could be a deeper physiological problem that you need to check, or are they getting it from somewhere else.

11. Secretive

If your previously open and communicative partner suddenly goes into a shell and clams up or starts concealing things from you, be warned.

12. Wants privacy

If he/she wants to be left alone when on the telephone or stops in the middle of a phone conversation when you enter the room and tells the caller he/she will call back, ask yourself why.

If a relationship has to be successful, both partners must trust implicitly. It is not healthy to be wary in a relationship or on your guard all the time. Also, your partner should exhibit not just one or two but most of the above signs before you begin to suspect them. You should know your partner well enough to figure out when you should be suspicious. But then, you also thought you knew them well enough to think they would never cheat on you.

But be warned, sometimes, despite thinking we know it all we are dead wrong. Probe beneath the surface before you assume the worst. Warren, a career-obsessed advertising executive was exhibiting all the classic signs – coming home late, being secretive, making calls privately, and running up a huge credit card bill. Stephanie, married to him for 20 years, began spending sleepless nights until she discovered that apart from genuinely being held up at work, he was making arrangements for her surprise 40th birthday party!

How to Date Successfully

Z[{R1N8U5FKG[(B{V99@X{THow to date? Everyone needs a little dating advice now and then. It can be especially helpful when you need some advice on how to date. Dating can be a scary thing and when you don’t think you know how to date it can be extremely scary. Maybe you haven’t dated in a long time and you are trying to get back in the game or perhaps you are just starting to get into the dating scene. Either way a little dating advice can be helpful. Below you will find some helpful dating advice on how to date successfully.

Dating Advice: How to Date tip #1, Always Define Your Expectations. What exactly are you looking for? A serious relationship, someone to hang out with? If there is any one piece of dating advice that is more important than another it would be this. Always let someone know where you are coming from and what it is you want from them. That way there is no confusion or upset later on.

Dating Advice: How to Date tip #2, Put Yourself Out There. Get out there and pursue interests and activities that you like. Putting yourself in situations you are comfortable bring yourself in will allow you be more inviting and open to meeting someone new. Another piece of dating advice, if you are not comfortable approaching someone make yourself approachable. Have an inviting smile and good eye contact with people and they will come over to you.

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Dating Advice: How to Date tip #3, Be Selective. Don’t just grab the first person that pays attention to you. You should know what you want in a partner and look for those qualities in the people you meet. On the same note don’t be too selective. If you look for perfection you are guaranteed to miss opportunities. Nobody is perfect, so know what you want but make sure you leave room for differences. If someone asks you for a date and you are not interested politely tell them no thank you.

Dating Advice: How to Date tip #4, Make a Good First Impression. You want this person to enjoy the date, but you also want them to enjoy you as an individual, so be considerate and charming without looking or acting like someone you’re definitely not. People who do a very good job molding their behavior to other people’s expectations actually tend to have less satisfying relationships, because they are not being themselves and that get tiring after awhile.

Dating Advice: How to Date tip # 5, Be Honest. If you are not ready to be in a committed relationship, let them know straight away so that you do not give them false hope. If you’re just not interested in a relationship with them anymore, tell them so. Don’t lead them on. Explain that you just don’t see it going anywhere. Don’t say that you want to be friends unless you actually want to be friends and spend time with this person on a regular basis. If you are interested in seeing this person more often, honesty is still crucial to a healthy relationship.