Not all women are the same — especially if they still haven’t gone through that first love experience. But this does not mean you still can’t flirt with that beautiful twenty one year old red head that works in the same building as you. Some young women will entertain the idea of dating an older man, while others will diplomatically pass up the invitation. But if you want to improve your chances, then you should keep these tips in mind:
Be a friend: The last thing a young woman needs is a man that wants what every other boy wants — to get into her pants. She shouldn’t feel as if you want something more than just a friendly chit-chat.
Be spontaneous: A woman likes a man who does things differently. It shows them that he is independent and fun to be with. After becoming friends, invite her to the local jazz club or the latest concert in town. The idea is to do something fun and expensive that other young men would not think of because they can’t afford it.
Please her: Show her your maturity by doing the little important things. Proper grooming, dressing well, smelling good, and kissing her on the cheek (let her smell your cologne) all fit into this category. Show her the advantages of a comfortable car rather than having to take the bus. Don’t be afraid to pay for her dinner (this demonstrates financial stability).
Be patient: After a couple of dates, never make the first move. If something will happen between the two of you, it will be her choice and at her own speed. But once she does make the first move, don’t act like a teenage boy wanting to speed things up to the goal of “dipping the stick”.
Instead, show her that she can trust you, that you won’t force her to do anything that she does not feel comfortable with. You can do this by throwing her off balance by doing the unexpected such as just massaging her without going further. Make her think, “why doesn’t he go further?” Always be a gentleman and keep her wanting more.
Over the years, we’ve come to accept that older is better because it has passed the test of time. This is thoroughly demonstrated through those who collect antique furniture or wine enthusiasts who appreciate a fifty-year-old bottle of Taylor Fladgate Porto. Because people associate age with experience — and experience with better performance — women will forever want to date older men.